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Muslims-> Easy
Guide for New Muslims
EASY
GUIDE FOR NEW MUSLIMS
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GENDER RELATIONSHIP
If you are
not married yet, Islam encourages marriage
to avoid the risk of falling into temptations and indulging in bigger
sins such as fornication and adultery. Allah, by His Divine Wisdom
has forbidden all pre-marital or extra-marital relationships.
Thus dating, hugging, touching, lustful glances and thoughts of
anyone besides your spouse is forbidden. The most recommended
place to look for a spouse is to ask your Muslim brothers and sisters
closest to you if they know anybody who is compatible with you.
Also, try getting yourself involved in islamic activities such as
study groups or classes where you will have a chance to get to know
more people and thus increase your exposure. Many Mosques and Islamic
Magazines will have a Matrimonial Sections, or also on the internet
there are many matrimonial sites that you could use in you search
for your companion.
Marriage is considered
half of your religion, therefore you are encourage to consider marriage
as soon as you believe you are ready and able to fulfill your responsibilities
as a husband or wife. Learn more about
equity and women in Islam by reading some selected articles
available on-line.
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